Western wrong impressions about blacks choice of a woman.

 If you ask any western people, what kind of a woman does African men or blacks like? Their answer will be fat women.  l want to use this opportunity to correct their wrong impressions about blacks. Whether fat or slim it all depends on individual. And there is no man who does not like a slim and light woman. Although some men like fat women than slim women, while some men like slim woman than fat women both blacks and white because life is full of choices.

 If you ask some men why do they like slim women they will tell you that they like to carry a woman on his labs and stand up to fuck her because she is light. And if you ask some men why do you like fat woman they will answer because they like women to dominate them in bed, or use their body as a pillow when they want to sleep in the night. 

 Every men both the westerners and Africans have different test on the type of women he want to date. But let me tell you the reason why the westerners believed that African men like fat women. It all started late 1980's to 90's. When the first Africans migrated to the western world, Mainly in Germany and other parts of the western world. 

 You know during this period racism in germany was almost 90%, and African men knowing that they were looking for a greener pasture in the Western world, and for the fact that they are intelligent and smart people on their own ways. When they got to Germany and discovered that the only way to get what they want fast was through the fat women then they decided to stick with the fat women and couple with the fact that the slim women are more attractive to their men. 

 You know you can't compete with their men because you are a foreigner,  and when you have a need and there is no resources to back up that your needs the wisest thing you need to do is to let it go. That was why they let the slim beautiful one to go because they do not have what is takes to get them. That was why they decided to stick with those one that is easy for them to get. 

 You know our proverbs says that “it is only a fool that does not know that his sister is a stranger in the family”.. What this proverb meant is that one day your sister will marry and leave the family to her own husband's house, that made her to be a stranger in the family because after she married she has to build her own family somewhere and she will remain there until she is dead. Because in our culture we marry for better and for worse . 

 And our culture made it impossible for women or men to divorce their partner no matter what happened, and if a woman has been divorced by her husband it makes life so difficult for her to remarry. Because every men will see her as a bad woman, who could not make her marriage work. But men are always at the safer side because people will only criticizes you but at a time it will all be forgotten. 

 What I’m trying to say here is that they migrated to the western world to live their for temporary not permanently. So the fat German women then were the only women that can give this boy's their resident permit and accommodate them.  if you look at this women some of them have been living a lonely life for many years without having a man in their life. Some spent years without sex, and because then German's were 90% racist. They decided to look for the fat women. Not because they like fat women but because that is the only way to get help easily. And this set of women hardly care if you are a black man or not, all they needed was a companion.

 So why do you think she will not give any man that comes to her rescue any help he wanted in order to keep him.  They have no options due to their men rejected them and always go for the slim and beautiful women. Everything that has happened in this world has a purpose and the purpose of those boy's going after a very fat women is because they needed their paper and help to be able to live in Grmany.

 Although they believed that fat women are always single with soft and good heart even till today. Although the new millennium African men does not suffers a lot to get their papers anymore. And as long as you have money and the contact everything is possible and is very easy to get your documents. But then those first immigrants of 1980-90's does not have money, and the western women then was blind and afraid to do business because they were comfortable with the little they got. 

But today everything has changed because all the women are more wiser than before. But thank God that they are wise and strong in heart now, because now they can use what they have to get what they need. Even as they westerners tried to block the whole angle but what they do not know is that the more you plan to block your lip holes in other to make thing hard for the other person is the more the other parties are planing how to destabilize your plans and make way for themselves.

 And one thing l would like to add is that any African man you see in this millennium era marrying a fat woman is marrying her as his choice of a women and out of love, not because of paper any more. Because the era when people suffered about paper issue has gone, because this time there are solutions for every problem as long as you are ready. So the more the westerners let go some of things they are trying to protect the better for them.