When
a
man is up to 30years and above, the first thing that comes into his mind is how to get
a good girl to marry. Please be careful because not all that glitters
on the social network are gold. I'm talking out of experience due to
what has happened in my presence at the Hotel I was staying in Lagos.
My advice to single men in diaspora is when you get to Nigeria
and intended to get married, please try as much as possible to control
your libido to avoid marrying a prostitute.
Although it is very
difficult to get a good girl to marry because of the fact that we all lives in
abroad and any girl you met both on face-book or on any other social
network, will pretend to be a good girl while she is not. That is why
one need to be very careful.
One day I was in my Hotel room, as the day was getting dark. I decided to
go out of my room to get some fresh air. To my own surprise, I saw
one man with a woman in the hotel room next to my room and this lady
happens to be somebody's wife. When her phone rang, she didn't want to
answer her call in the presence of the man so she
decided to go out of her room to answer her call and this was
happening around 9pm.
I noticed some strange mood on her because her movement was like someone who is afraid of something.
I decided to slow down my step in order to know what she was discoursing on phone. To my own surprise she was on phone with her diaspora husband and I
heard when she was telling her Husband that Honey I'm tired that the
kids are sleeping in their room and I'm here alone on our bedroom
missing you. She later asked her diaspora husband when is he coming
back.
Ooh my God a woman that was in a Hotel room with another man
was telling her Husband that she was at home alone missing him. Can
you imagine that rubbish? That is why I said early that try as much
as possible to know who you are getting married to and if possible
after the marriage bring your family close to where you lives to
avoid another man being the real father of your kids. If you are the
type that comes back once in a year.
Another incident happened to me at Links Hotel in Owerri. It was around
evening and my room internet wifi was not working fine, and I needed
to check my mail so I decided to go to the reception to get an Internet connection. As I was seating down and chatting with a friend, I saw a slim pretty girl
at the reception, In my mind, I said God this is the kind of woman I have
been dreaming to marry. I went to her to get to know her more.
After some
chat with her, She told me that she came to Owerri to make a hotel
reservation for her uncle who want to lodge in Links Hotel.
She also told me that she is a student studying in uni-port. And she also said
that she will soon travel to Lagos in the next two days and I told
her that I will be traveling to Lagos in the next two days too. As we
were talking, I offered her a free ride from Owerri to Lagos and she
accepted.
Later, I told my cousin to take her to the
pool side for her to get something to drink.
When they got there as they were drinking and talking, there were some girls at the pool bar drinking and this girl asked my cousin what were those girls at the
pool side are doing? Are they prostituting or what? My cousin said to
her that he does not know. When my cousin told me that, I said to him
that she might be a good girl. In the evening, she spent the first night with me I
did not touch or come closer to her because I was still afraid of her
due to I'm not the type that pick woman on the street or want to have
sex with a strange woman.
The following day when she was in the bathroom, I opened her bags and found some Packets of condom immediately I called my cousin on phone and told him to move from his room to my
room because I didn't want to spend the night alone with her to avoid her seducing me.
The following morning as we were about to leave to Lagos from Owerri.
I asked her to pray for us? She was shy and couldn't pray. I said to her ok you can pray in our native language if you are finding it difficult to use our borrowed language
“English” she was still shy and couldn't pray. I was angry and I
asked her what are you studying in Uni-port? She said she is studying
to be a doctor. I said to her that you cannot just study to be a
doctor that you must have a field of study? She said if I'm doubting
her that she will invite me to her school hostel in Uni-port for me
to believe her. I told her encase of your next conquest tell him that
you are studying medicine.
At that moment I deleted her number.
After two days my cousin was going somewhere and saw her in a brothel where
she was prostituting in Festac at Prince Suits. That is why I said early that if you are
looking for a wife be careful with any woman you don't know or you
met on the road or on the social network to avoid making a mistake.
