Couple
with the racial treatment in a relationship between the blacks and
the white people, their Half-caste children end up having an identity
problem and also being segregated in the Societies.
Identity
problem is what most of the Half-caste Children are fighting to have
in the western world today. They have lost and also have an identity
problem because of the fact that they all want to belong to the white
families. Whereby denouncing to belong to the black families because
of how their mothers brain washed them. Sometimes one do not need to
blame the women because of the pains they went through during the
time of bringing the child up. They wouldn't want to lose the child
to somebody from a continent that they never wish to move in. But
denying the child to know his father will it solve the problem? I
think no.
If
the Half-caste people, think that the white families will integrate
you people fully into the white families, I suggest that you people
do a re-think because in my own view, I think it will not be easy or possible because of the racial treatment in the western world.
Sometimes you do not need to blame them because of the fact that
their mothers often brain washed them . Whereby telling them a couple
of lies about their fathers. Without telling them the other sides of
the stories and how the woman were maltreating the man. Without
telling them how the white Societies racially maltreated the
blacks. Sometimes one will found out that this is the reason why the
Half-caste children are more racist to the blacks than the white are
racist to the blacks.
When
you have a little conversation with some of the Half-caste children,
one will found out that they are more racist to the blacks than the
white are to the blacks because of their up bringing. Most of them
were brain washed by their mothers so that they will hate their black
fathers and because of these reason, most of them often denounced
anything to do with blacks and refused to look for their fathers or
their roots. When you asked them where do you come from? The answers
are often I'm from Europe or America. That is a wrong answer. You can
never come from your mothers countries. It is only a few of them that
are proud to say that. “ I'm From Africa or I'm Half Africa and Half
Europe or America or Asia” But when you asked a white kids that his
or her parents are not from them same countries, he or she often use
the world “half this country and half that country” Because they
want to relate to the two countries.
I
want all of you to do me a favour and ask your mothers how they are
being treated or regarded in their societies the moment they got
married to a black man? If she will be bored enough to tell you the
truth, one will found out that they are being seen or treated as a
second class citizens from the moment she is married to a black man
even the government supported the treatment by cutting the
percentage of the social income of a white woman with a black man
than a white woman with a white father.
I
want you all to make an enquiries into these allegation and when you
did, you will found out that the government gives your mothers less
money from the social than to the white parents. With this, I want
you to know that you are not fully welcome in the white families as
all of you thought.
I
will advice you to ask people around you to know the truth if your
mothers refused to tell you. If you people think that you all are
more welcome in the white families than in your black roots, then ask
yourselves these questions. Do the white people really want to
welcome me fully as a member of the white families and treat me as
equal as they treated to the other white children?
If
your answer is yes, then ask yourselves why do the social give a
white woman that is married to a black man less right than to a white
woman that is married to a white man. Why is it that the government
is cutting the monthly child support of your mothers and other things
than to the white parents? What is the morality of this act? Does
this shows equality or inequality in the family income efficiency?
Please I think it is time for all of you to re-think and stop hating
your black fathers or denouncing your black roots because this can
never solve your identity problems. Rather it will make you people to
hate the blacks more because no body had told you the truth of everything.
I
want all of you to know that, as long as the Half-caste children do
not want to hear from their fathers sides of the stories, I will use
myself as an example and the story that I'm about to tell
you here is nothing but the truth. And until you know the truth, you
all will continue to hate the innocent man. I want all of you to know
that you are more welcome and easily to integrate to the black
families than to the white families. Don't get me wrong, I'm just
writing out of an experience because I know better and I have been in
the same situation which made me to know more things that you do not
really know due to the fact that they often hide the
truth.
If
your mothers will be bored enough to tell you the real truth why she
broke up with her husband or why the man left you and her, one will
found out that in most cases, black men are not the only cause of the
break down of the marriage or the relationship and never wish to
abandoned his blood. Sometimes, the society contributed to it. Couple
with a wrong advise that both often received from friends and
families. Even the white men are still having trouble living with a
white woman. How do you think that it will be easy for a black man, couple with the culture differences.
We
blacks are always ready to treat you equal with other black children.
We blacks never wish to segregate Half-caste children with the black
children. That is why in Africa, one will found out that when a black
man had a son with a white woman, and after had another son in
Africa. That child still get his rightful position as the first child
because in Africa, our culture made it possible that the first child
is the heir to his fathers properties no matter if he is from a white
mother or from a black mother. As long as his father recognises him
as his first child.
This
is to tell you that blacks never intend to abandon you or segregate
you people in our societies. But because of the conditions that we
found ourselves in the western societies which made it possible for
the blacks to temporary abandoned their children.
I
want all of you to hear my story. The story I'm about to tell you
people is a true story and that is what I'm going through at the
moment and know that your fathers did not intentionally abandoned you
people. Maybe he abandoned you because he might have experienced what I'm
going through now which is hurting me emotionally.
I
have a daughter Isabella by her name. A princess that I love and
cherish more than anything in this world. She lives 1000 meter from
where I live. I pay her monthly child support as the court demanded.
I often buy a gift and send to her by post because her mother refused me access to her. Why? Because I refused to marry her. Although I
promised her marriage because of the circumstances that surrounded
the whole scene.
First,
she wanted to use her pregnancy to trap me down without asking me if
I wanted a baby at that moment. Secondly when she got pregnant, she
threatened to abort the baby if I refused to marry her. To avoid
killing an unborn child, I have no option than to promise her
marriage. Do you think that I did something bad to protect unborn
child by promising to marry her mother in order to make sure that she did
not abort the baby? I don't think I did anything wrong because of my culture and my christian faith which says that we should not kill. If the only way for
the baby to be alive is by promising her marriage, then let me be a
bad guy. And my predicament with her mother today is because I refused to marry her.
Since
three years now, I have not seen the baby that I'm paying her monthly
child support or that I have been sending gift to. Every xams and
new year, I will make sure that I sent a gift to her even though I
have not seen her since 3 years now. Do you believe that last
december, I bought her some Christmas cloths and sent to her but it
happened that they cloths that I bought is too small for her due to she is bigger
than my calculation. I know you might ask how did I found out? Well
the truth is that the mother still write me message or reply my message when
she want something or when I bought something that is small than my
daughter. To show you that what she is interested is what she will
get from me not how to see my daughter.
Because
of all this acts, I have been going to court and each time I went to
the court, I often lost in the court because the mother often told
the court that the reason why she don't want me to see the child is
because I was planing to run away to Africa with the child. So what
they court did was to start a delay tactics. Sometimes, when we went
to the court to talk about how to see my daughter, instead of the
judge to talk about how I will be seeing my daughter, she will be
asking me who is paying for my school fees. Because my university is
one of the most expensive university in Prague. Or she will be asking
me some silly questions that often got me angry. And when I get
angry, the judge will send me out of the court room and my lawyer
will not act or do anything.
The
next thing the judge will announce that the case have been adjourned. At a time,
I discovered that continuing the case is a wast of time and money
because I don't really understand or know why it will take a court 2
years to conclude the case. Then I quitted the case and put the whole
thing in the hands of God. So to most of the Half-caste that do not
know their fathers, my story might be similar to the reason why your mothers refused you to relate or know your real fathers.
I
know sometimes, your mothers often use an excuse that your father is
a drug dealer or this and that. My question is? Is it only the blacks
that sells drugs? What of the white men that sells drugs? Has his
woman denied him access to their children? Even when they went to the
prison, they still relate to their children when they are out.
So
my advice to the Half-caste children is to look for your fathers
because that is where you belong. Forget about the media and the
western propaganda about blacks. Forget about the hungry pictures of
black Africans that has been floating on the street of the western
world. All those pictures is just to portray a bad image of Africans
as a hungry and dying people.
Wake
up from your little comfort zone and look for your fathers because
without him, there will be no body like you. Ask your mothers to tell
you some informations about your real fathers and look for him. You
can live wherever you wish to live but try to have a good relationship with your real father. And believe me when you wake up and found out
that you and your father is in contact, you will feel the joy of the
fathers love. You will be proud in your life that you have a father
and your friends will never mock you again.
You
are his blood and you should know that blood is ticker than water.
And no man will ever want to abandon his blood or children except if
the man is a fool.
So
my advice in this 2013 is for you to look for your fathers and relate
to them. He suffered and were humiliated in the hands of your mothers
and the societies. Believe me, if there are some video records for
you to see what he went through in the hands of the white women
because of the so called papers that she helped him to get, you will
weep.
Although
sometimes you do not need to blame the white women for their
treatment to blacks because of the culture differences. And couple
with the kind of activities that the blacks are engaging themselves
in the western world. Which they white people created. And
sometimes, some of the white girls dreamed to have a real family with
a black man. But at the end she found out that she has no future with
the man. Or the man is keeping more than one women both in the
western world and in Africa. So the next option for her is to kick
the man out. Please you cannot have two women at a time, either you
choose to marry a white or a black women but keeping two families is
not good.
I
have heard a couple of issues that most white women are complaining
about their black husbands and their behaviours and it seems to be
true to me because even the black women in Africa will
do the worst than the white women if they found out that they are the one helping or feeing the man.
Example in Nigeria, Can a Nigeria man who owns nothing be able to
marry a pretty, educated and a working class Nigeria girl? It is not
that easy except that she is above 35 years. And if by any chance , a
poor man happened to marry a pretty working class girl from a rich
family, the man will see hell both from the parents and from the
relatives of his wife. In fact they will turn the man to their slaves
or servant.
But
in the western world, an asylum person without anything will still
have the opportunity to marry an educated and a working class woman,
she will keep him in her house and feed him. Instead of the person to
try to blend to her system and appreciate her and get a new
orientation. He will be a nuisance in the society. Sometimes, he will
want to bring his culture to somebody who have no clue about it. When
you go to Rome, you need to behave like romans if you really want
things to work out for you. And sometimes you need to ask yourself
that if I'm a white woman, won't I do the same thing like her.
How
can she marry a man who never want to work if he has the opportunity? A man who prefers to be proud that I'm on the street
selling drugs or who cares more about his families in Africa than her
or who have a wife in Africa knowing that one day he will leave me
with the kids to suffer. Who is not educated or want to further his
education. Who's mentality is totally different from my own. If you
are on her shoes, at the end you will found out that this is not what
she dreamed in her life. Couple with the pressures and insults that
she often get from her families and friends that your husband or
boyfriend is a street boy or a drug dealer. With her level of
education. To me if she is my daughter, I would not allow her to
marry a such man tackless of an asylum person. The next option for
her is to quit the relationship. Come on guys we blacks need to
rethink and change our ways of doing things and know that you are in
a foreign land. If you don't want to spend the rest of your life with
her, please you need not to deceive her into marriage for whatever
reason just because you wanted something from her. And white women
should also know that as long as you never wish to live in Africa, African
men will continue to dump you because we can never live and die in a
foreign land that is our culture.
I'm
happy that I did not go through with what blacks are going through in
the name of paper. If you do not know where to find him, please write
me his informations on my private email at kas_cafe@chef.net
and I promise to help you to get his contact no matter where he might be
as long as he is alive. Wish those who will take my advice a good
luck in their search for their fathers. May the almighty God guards,
leads you to a right directions where you will find your fathers. I wish all of you a happy new year.
