Following
the sexual apatite in human being, Men who cheats often give an
excuse of cheating . Some men ends up being a sex victim.
Good
excuse by men: But if we are to judge by our excuses, that one female sex partner can kill a man then the women also need another male sex partner because
one man can also kill a woman too. Have you ever ask
your self or try to find out the difference between this woman and
that woman? There is no difference, all women vagina are same. And the test often comes from your brain not from her body. That is why our elders says that “ The romancing and kissing of a
woman is better than penetration, because as soon as one ejaculated,
he will get tired and slept off”.
So
bear it in mind that the difference often comes from your mind or
from your imagination not from her body. To avoid this imaginations,
all you need to do is to try to know what attracts you from a woman
or from a man and tell your partner to be like that. The money you
often spend in another woman, why not use that same money to maintain your partner? All you need to do is to get her some new
make-ups, new dresses, take her to a good saloon where she will do
her hair and polish her nails. Believe me she will look more sexy
that one can think off. Make
her to visit fitness club at-least twice a week. Take your partner as
part of yourself, care for him or her as you care for yourself.
I went to Owerri for a Holiday, I spent a couple of weeks because I
was handling some projects in Owerri. And one of my friend asked me
what kind of a man are u? The person might be reading this article.
He asked me why can't I go out and get some women to keep me company
instead of staying in my Hotel room alone since I came to Owerri? I
told him man, I prefer watching tom and Jerry than looking for a girl
for sex and more over I have a girlfriend.
I told him that the money I will use
to get a sexual satisfaction from another girl, I could also use the
same money to get my girlfriend a good gift that will cheer her up
and she will give me the same sexual satisfaction that those girls
in Owerri could offer to me. Staying up to three or six months without
sex can never kill a man, in fact if you remove your mind from sex, you will not get any sexual feelings. You started having feeling
because your mind often think of sex.
Another
thing I want to hit here, which consign women more especially
Nigeria women and men is, please stop being too anxious on what you
will get from a woman or a man. Some times men are the course of this
problem, how? For example: when you meet a girl, all your plans is how to have sex with her as soon as possible, and because of this she
want to grab whatever she could grab from you because she knew that
as soon as you sleep with her, the next thing you will do is to dump her, the
same thing happens to men, they might be afraid that you are not
interested in them. Maybe she only want to reap him off and dump him
without him getting in her pants.
Well
this is a mentality of uncivilised people. And some of us that lives in a western world often have problem with this mentality because we
don't spend on a woman before getting any sexual satisfaction from
her. In the western world, women often sleep with men because she want
sex or she is interested in him. And for the fact that you have sex
with a woman or a man does not mean that you have a control over him or
her because as you fucked her, she also fucked you.
So what is the
big deal on it? But in Nigeria, women see sex as something
else. Although our culture made it difficult couple with hardship and
high unemployment. That is why when you say hi to a girl the next
minutes she will be demanding for an expensive stuff, this makes
some men to quit some relationship or want to sleep with her as soon
as possible not because he sees her as a gold-digger.
Lets
ask ourselves this question? If you are a man ask yourself this
question: How will you feel when you meet a girl today and by tomorrow she ask you to buy
her a car? Then if you think you will
see her as a gold-digger then stop planing to sleep with her
immediately you meet a girl, because their private part is one part of their
body that they cherish most. And in their mind, they believe that
every man want sex from a woman and that might be true.
And if you are a
woman ask yourself this question: how will you feel if you meet a man
today and he want to sleep with you immediately? Probably you will
feel that he is a playboy. That is why you need to stop demanding any
thing from a man you know that you don't want to go into relationship
with. I think the only way for someone not to feel cheated or hurt
is by being open to each other. Or see everything as fun like the western women do. Try to tell people you that you meet what you
want or your mind. And Nigeria women should stop thinking that any
man that had sex with you must marry you.
