Western donations and the trick behind it.

The only solution to African problems is, until African remove this mentality that they can not do it alone without the Western word helping or supporting them, before they could achieve their goals. Africa will remain backward and disrespected by the Western World. 

 What makes angry sometimes when i think of it is, why can't our so called politicians learn and make thing right? What does it take to be great? lt took Europe 20years after the Berlin wall to be great and developed because they are united. And they put the interest of their people at heart and also believed that they can do it by themselves. While African leaders stole all the money meant for the People and their Welfares and dumped it in the Western banks. off which they will be praising you while using you. 

 This people have the same brain as we do how come their own is working while our brain is not working? Because we only think of ourselves while they think of the future of their people. If Africa or any 3rd World Countries want to be great and be respected in the World. First we have to remove the idea of we can not do it alone. Second cut of all the international help and come together to put our minds and heads together and prove to them that we can do it without them, and stop being a consumer rather than a producers. 

 If they can do it why can't we? let's stop accepting bribe from these Western Nations because they only do it to get control of you. And when someone offers you a bribe and you refused to take it, he or she will regards you and give you a respect that you might not think of. He will see you as a man with principles, but when you take the bribe he or she will never regard you as anything but a fool. 

 l was once offered a bribe in Switzerland to give information about some blacks activities in Switzerland and l told the police man to fuck himself. What will l gain to gain the whole world and watch my people perish in jail. If the West really want to help African let them first return all the stolen money that was dumped in their bank's. And stop accommodating a stolen money in their countries then we will know that they are really want to help African. 

 African don't really need all this ghost donations, what they need is a leader who can give accountability of their daily activities. If you want to fight poverty, not by donating bags of rice, tomato’s and fruits and other food stuff rather by tackling the core course of the problems, which is the imposition of leadership to people with those fat stomach politicians, who only care about their families not about the poor or the masses.  

 The money you sent to African never get to the hands of the people that it was meant for, rather it end up in the hands of the corrupted politicians. If the amount of money pumped to Africa as CNN and some news broadcasted, the Money is enough to transform Africa. Make an audit of all the money you donated to Africa and try to reach out to the people not to the so called self style politicians. It cost nothing to provide water, good road, electricity, education and good health care for the people. God help u people because on the last day everybody will give account of everything he or she has done in this world.   

Is there a True Love?

As our elders says that they way you dress your bed is how you will lay on it. You are the one who will make your relationship work or make it crash, and this will happen if the two people involved will tell themselves the truth and stop deceiving one another.  

 The world is dominated by the word; “Love” which everybody adopted and started practicing to give our life's a happy moment as long as it can last, not that there is a true love. What we have might be referred as a temporary happy moment in our love life which never last, but we claim that there is a true love because we have no choice than to adopt it in order to make our life meaningful. 

 The word “love” in dictionaries was defined as “A strong feelings of affection and sexual attraction for someone”. But that affection can also Humiliate you. Because it was chosen and practiced in a deceitful way to get what one wanted. In any mention of the word love, it has so many meanings and reason for mentioning it. If you all will agree with me that Men use the word “Love” to deceive women and get to her pants, but in the process of getting to her pants you might be stocked, the same thing happens to the women also.

 Everybody is claiming that there is a true love, while what we are practicing is just a feeling of affection or sexual attraction to people in order to have a companion and be happy in life. There is nothing like true love and if there is l have not found it or seen it. Anybody who claim that he or she have found true love that person is lying. 

 The worst part of this 'love deceive” is the lying in the presence of God that we will care, love each other and spend the rest of our life together with he or she at the alter, thinking that we can deceive God during our marriage vow.

 Sometimes l ask my self why do people really lie and make a false vow at the alter “ for better and for worst”? Why can't we change this our marriage vow of for better for worst to, let the will of God take control over this our marriages, or God whenever we don't find each other attractive let the marriage end, or for better and when the worst occur we decide whether to continue or not. 

 In this case when the marriage crashed, you didn't lie to God. And the worst sin you will commit is lying to God. Don't get me twisted l want to prove to everybody who will read this article that there is nothing like a true love, because what we are doing is like we are managing the institution called love. Which means that any day if there is any mismanagement in this institution it will collapse and the institution close. Because If there is a true love as people have claimed then non of us will ever leave his or her first lover to another lover, or even cheat. 

 We always leave our first lover with a reason or with some excuses. Some women will say that l left my boyfriend or my Husband because he suddenly changed. And the men will say because l don't found her attractive any more, or she is a nagging woman. But at the first time you found her attractive and fell in love with her, she was not a nagging woman then, or he was a nice and caring man that is why you accepted him, but now he has changed. 

If there is any reason that will make any relationship to crash then there is nothing like a true love. Because if there is a true love no matter what happened during the relationship or during our marriage life then for the sake of the true love as one claims, then we have to make it work and stop cheating. And stop bringing a third party into your relationship, and learn how to fix things right with your partner whenever any issue arised.

My Experience with bus driver's in London and how to skip that expense.

In the Summer of 2008, I took a long flight from Lagos, Nigeria, to London for a Holiday. When my flight arrived at the Heath-row Airport, I took a taxi to my hotel. The following day when I wanted to go out I didn't want to take a taxi again because the last taxi I had taken had been expensive. So, I decided to take a public bus. 

 When I entered a bus I took out a 20 pound note and the driver said to me that in London they don't accept money in notes inside a bus and he told me to get off if I didn't have any coins to pay. I get off and then I entered another bus but the driver told me the same thing. There was no where nearby to change the 20-pound note into coins so I had to take a taxi to get to my Hotel, which cost me a lot. 

 To me it was a big surprise that in London they don't accept money in notes inside buses because in Nigeria we do pay in buses with notes, and the driver never asks you to get off of the bus because you have coins. In Nigeria we don't normally use coins to pay inside buses because people don't value them or use them often because there is nothing they can buy in the market with them. 

However, even though we don't often use coins to pay inside a bus, you can still use them to pay in the bus if you have them. So if your planing to travel to London, bear it in mind that transportation in London is expensive and the only way to skip that expense is. For example, you can take a long walk as much as possible, maybe a 5-10 minute walk to get to the next station because many of the bus stations are much closer to each other than the bus map suggests. Or you can purchase the Oyster card which is cheaper. For example, a single one way journey fare will cost you 2.20 pounds but with an Oyster card it will cost you 1.30 pound.